What is Recommendation System? — one analogy

1The analogy

Walk into the coffee shop down the street often enough over a few months, and your order gets shorter. The owner remembers what you always drink and has it ready before you ask, and quietly suggests a new bean when it seems like your kind of thing. This — looking at your past record and picking out what you'll probably like next — is a recommendation system.

The suggesting splits into two approaches. One looks at how the drinks themselves resemble each other: a customer who always picks a nutty bean gets offered a new bean with a similar flavor. The other looks at how customers resemble each other: if a few regulars whose taste overlaps with yours loved a new item, it gets suggested to you even though you've never tried it.

Both approaches hit a wall with a first-time customer. There's no record left behind, so there's nothing to go on.

2In detail

The ingredient is behavior, not star ratings

Very few people bother to leave a star rating every time. So recommendation these days mostly runs on traces people leave just by going about their business, not traces they meant to leave — what they clicked, how long they stayed, whether they watched to the end or skipped away in three seconds, whether they added something to a cart and never bought it.

The advantage of these traces is that there's an enormous amount of them; the drawback is that what they mean is fuzzy. Staying on something a long time could mean it was interesting or that it was confusing, and there's no way to tell from the trace alone, while an accidental click gets counted as interest too. So each signal gets weighted differently, and several traces get layered together.

Looking at items that resemble each other

Turn a book's genre and author, a song's tempo and instruments, or the words used in a product description into a bundle of numbers, and you can measure the distance between one item and another. This approach hands you whatever sits close to something you already liked.

It works immediately even on something brand new — as long as there's a description, it can be placed even before anyone has bought it yet. The tradeoff is that it keeps circling back to more of the same thing. Watch one scary movie and you get fed nothing but scary movies from then on.

Looking at people whose taste resembles yours

There's another route. Find people whose choices overlap heavily with yours, and recommend whatever they liked that you haven't seen yet. It works without knowing anything about what an item actually contains — all it needs is a record.

This route's strength is turning up surprises. Things that share no genre and no description with what you liked, yet somehow fit, come out of this approach. The tradeoff is that it needs a certain amount of history built up first, and it tends to keep pushing whatever's already popular further to the top.

A real service filters in two stages

Where there are millions of items, there's no way to score every single one. So a fast, rough method narrows the field down to a few hundred candidates first. Then a more careful model ranks only those candidates.

At the very end, a set of rules takes one more pass — mixing things up so the same category doesn't run in a row, slipping in something newly added on purpose, and dropping anything you've already bought. The list that shows up on your screen has passed through several layers to get there.

How do you know it matched well

The first check usually splits past records in half, shows only the earlier half, and tests whether the system can guess the later half. After that, real users get split into groups shown different recommendations, and the results get compared.

There's a trap here, though. Aim only at the click rate, and nothing but sensational titles rises to the top. So alongside how well it matched, a system also tracks how varied the results are, how much new material it surfaced, and whether people stayed satisfied over the long run.

3More precisely

A recommendation system treats the problem as turning both a user and an item into a bundle of numbers, and calculating a score for how well the two fit together. The approach that finds people with similar taste is called collaborative filtering; the approach that uses what an item actually contains is called content-based recommendation. Real services blend the two, then layer on context like time of day or which device someone's using.

The analogy breaks down in one place. The coffee shop owner recognizes a customer and suggests something good, but a recommendation system doesn't understand taste. It only counts up things that happened together and turns that into a probability, so even an accidental click gets counted as interest. And the owner's goal is the customer's satisfaction, while a service's recommendation is usually aimed at whatever goal the service itself has set. What gets chosen as that goal reshapes the entire list that ends up on your screen.

One more gap: the owner only ever serves the handful of people who walk through the door, while a real system holds records from millions of people at once, and borrows patterns across every one of them. A stranger's habits can end up shaping what shows up on your screen, even though you've never met.

4Try it yourself

5Common misconceptions

It's easy to think a recommendation is reading your mind, but actually it's counting up the records of people who behaved similarly to you and turning that into a probability.
It's easy to think a good match means it's been listening to your conversations, but actually search and click history alone can produce a match good enough to feel that way.
It's easy to think the better the match, the better the recommendation, but actually showing only more of what you already like closes off any chance to run into something new.

7One-line summary

In shortA recommendation system finds items and people that resemble your past behavior and hands you, in order, what you'll probably like next.

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